Learn How to Help
What To Say
When Others Ask
As a suicide caregiver, you will likely be asked questions about the person in need and what is going on. For example, a mutual friend might ask if you've noticed something's wrong or a coworker may wonder why you're stepping out for phone calls more frequently. To avoid getting caught off guard, take some time to evaluate what you might share or withhold in these conversations.
Talking about this with the person in need is crucial, especially when it comes to people you know mutually. It is important to honor their preferences while also ensuring you feel comfortable.
Use the flowchart below to consider the conversations you may or may not have with the following people:
- Close family and friends
- Other friends
- Co-workers
- Others (i.e. neighbors, sports groups, church community, etc.)
Conversations around suicide are difficult. Preparing for these conversations can help you and the person in need avoid being put into the uncomfortable position of sharing more than intended.
SID is not a substitute for clinical treatment or crisis intervention
If you are looking for emergency support, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Suicide Is Different's content and products were developed by subject matter experts for educational purposes only and intended for use by adults. We encourage you to review our Resource Directory if you are looking for clinical services or supports outside of the US.
